At one point in the book, when, during his high school years, he forgets Mothers Day, Klebold snaps with frustration and shoves him against the fridge. There was a problem getting your location. Eric kind of let his feelings be known, his hatreds or dislikes. -- b. Dylan Klebold was a child of upper-middle-class parents, considered gifted in grammar school. And why didn't they know more? As the months passed, new evidence began to show that it had not, in fact, been Cassie who "said yes." Are you sure that you want to report this flower to administrators as offensive or abusive? After meeting several times with the couple since Tuesday's shooting-and-bombing rampage at the school, Marxhausen tonight described the Klebolds as being at a loss to explain what drove their son, 17, and his friend Eric Harris, 18, to carry out the attack. All we have in the house is a BB gun to shoot the woodpeckers. Princess Anne dons a vibrant brocade coat and cobalt blue fascinator as she attends Ladies Day at Newmarket. In the days after Dylan Klebold along with Eric Harris shot and killed 12 students and one teacher and then himself at Columbine High School on April 20, 1999, his mother, Sue Klebold, remembered a kind of religious warfare in the community of Littleton, Colorado. In 1999, Klebold and Harris opened fire at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado, killing 12 classmates and a teacher and wounding 26 others before killing . I wouldnt consider him to be Jewish in any way or form, Rabbi Zwerin said of Dylan Klebold. She attempted to paint a very real portrait of Dylan and insisted on his humanity, said Andrew Solomon, who wrote about the Klebolds in his 2012 book, Far From the Tree: Parents, Children and the Search for Identity, and wrote the introduction to Klebolds memoir. But he didn't feel like he fit in at Columbine High School in Colorado. The elder Yassenoff and his son, Milton Yassenoff, were members of the Columbus Reform congregation, Temple Israel, the Dispatch reported. The pastor of that church, Rev. According to the Associated Press, there were signs that Klebolds father had concerns about his son. Oops, we were unable to send the email. His friends have said that he was cremated. Quickly see who the memorial is for and when they lived and died and where they are buried. Try again later. There's where you screwed up!' His mother on the other hand wondered how he could be anti-Semitic, as he was half Jewish and she being full. Sueng-Hui Cho killed 32 people at Virginia Tech University in 2007. She continued, Morality, empathy, ethics these werent one-time lessons, but embedded in everything we did with our kids.. But they wanted some kind of service for their son,sothey phoned Don Marxhausen, a liberal-minded Lutheran pastor from their town. They were at a cemetery far from the couples home near San Bernardino, Calif., an attendee told Reuters, because a closer graveyard refused to accept the bodies. contrasting symbol, because it is so true & means so much the battle between good & bad never ends Here we ponder on the tragedy of Dylan Klebold. To illustrate the religious environment of the area, she mentioned that Franklin Graham, a well-known evangelist, performed the memorial service for the slain children in front of a crowd of 65,000 that included Al Gore, the vice president at that time, who spoke. It profiles Sue Klebold, Dylan Klebold's mother, and examines what lessons Americans should take away from the tragedy. In 1999, however, Columbine shooters Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold became the nation's first poster boys for the phenomenon and the first to be widely misunderstood. I held her, but could feel nothing, as I was numb with overload. During his sermon, George Kirsten proclaimed Cassie a martyr. "She said yes with her life. Your new password must contain one or more uppercase and lowercase letters, and one or more numbers or special characters. Please email us at [emailprotected], subject line republish, with any questions or to let us know what stories youre picking up. Are you sure that you want to delete this photo? Tom is a geophysicist, Sue works with handicapped people. It was all very normal. Looking back, Klebold realizes Dylans behavior might have suggested a larger problem. Use Next and Previous buttons to navigate, or jump to a slide with the slide dots. The mother of one of the Columbine school shooters admitted she 'prayed her son would die' when she learned of the massacre. The work is like cataloging hell, as New York magazine put it. Of course I wish these horrible things never happened, but certainly I'm grateful I've reached a place where life is okay and there's plenty to be thankful for. They are picturedexamine a sawed-off shotgun at a makeshift shooting range the year of the shooting, Following the shooting, Sue says their entire community was 'in chaos', and that their local governor went on television to hold the parents responsible, which started 'open season on their family', Sue believed her son was in a good place, happy that her he was employed, doing extracurricular activities and set to go to a university of his choice, Despite being tormented by guilt, Sue says she is finally in a better place, and has 'plenty to be thankful for', 17:21 09 Jul 2021, updated 00:59 10 Jul 2021, Queen of the cobbles! Recent confessed serial killer Israel Keyes' family held a funeral for him earlier this month in the small Washington town of Deer Park, according to the Associated Press. "She Said Yes" became an instant bestseller. The family from my church related how great it was to have Dylan at their house and how he wrestled with their son. He is half Jewish as I am all Jewish. So it went for a half an hour or more. Reports of the Klebold familys Jewish ancestry first appeared last Friday in the Columbus Dispatch of Columbus, Ohio, where Dylan Klebolds maternal great-grandfather, the late Leo Yassenoff, was a Jewish community leader and philanthropist. 'What I remember doing was just wanting to crawl in that casket with him, he was so cold I just kept thinking, I've got to get him warm, I just wanted him to be warm. She's spent years excavating every detail of her family life, trying to understand what she could have done to prevent her son's violence. "And as he wept, he said thus: 'O my son Absalom my son, my son Absalom if only I had died in your place! Try again later. Family members linked to this person will appear here. Over the next 10 years, Kirsten's persistent evangelicalism would make him the target of accusations that he was exploiting a tragedy. On the front lines, though, Littleton's pastors did not have the luxury of interpretation. By Monica Greep For Mailonline But journals found by police told a differentstory, and Sue was devastated and shocked after discovering the mental anguish her son was in - with passages describing the mental 'agony' he was in and detailing his forms of self-harm. And I didn't realise until this very moment that did become my life mission, I hope Dylan has helped me understand because that's what I've been seeking for 20 years, was understanding.'. Use Escape keyboard button or the Close button to close the carousel. For memorials with more than one photo, additional photos will appear here or on the photos tab. But after the shooting, she changed her mind. Now theres even more undeniable proof that he was cremated. Attention: Death verified by Social security index. Although by Orthodox standards Susan wouldnt be considered Jewish because her mother wasnt Jewish, she was active in the Reform congregation during her youth. Dylan lay in the casket surrounded with Beanie Babies. Yet the Rev. Im Jewish., Similarly, Susan Klebolds cousin, Skip Yassenoff, indicated to the Denver Post last week that Dylan Klebolds act must have been very difficult for [Susan], for any average American parent but particularly for someone brought up Jewish.. His uncleRuslan Tsarni had hoped to bury Tsarnaevin Massachusetts, where he lived, but no cemetery would let him, according to the Los Angeles Times. Copyright 1999 Please use Chrome, Safari, Firefox, or Edge to view this site. Don Marxhausen said of the parents, Thomas and Susan Klebold. i have always wondered that as well considering that dylan had atleast a very small family gathering for a funeral.maybe erics parents possibly did have some sort of private funeral or memorial service for family that wanted to attend.if so,they probably made it private for obvious reasons.this is just speculation though.even though he did a Eric Harris, along with Dylan Klebold, shot and killed 13 people and injured 20 at Columbine High School on April 20, 1999. When she was a child, this mixed religious household confused her, and she grappled with her relationship to God and to heaven and hell. Tsarnaevs wife refused to claim his body, and his parents would not return to the United States to arrange his funeral. This monster, she told her hairdresser, Dee Grant, tears coming down her cheeks, was not the son I knew.. The West Bowles congregation filled the Bernall's living room the week after April 20, praying and crying and praying some more. Thats where I think I started getting in trouble with my church, says Marxhausen. At the service, Marxhausen told the Old Testament story of Absalom, King Davids rebel son who took part in a revolt and was killed. Sue is from a prominent Jewish community . He is reportedly buried in Virginia but no further details are known. . Another said what great parents the Klebolds were. I learned how fear can take hold of a community. Franklin Graham was beating me up through my TV, he says. 'I said out loud, "Darling help me understand what happened, that's all I want to understand". This is a carousel with slides. Columbine High School. He is buried in an unmarked grave in Virginia. or don't show this againI am good at figuring things out. As I walked into the incredibly tension-filled room, I knew that the service I had prepared was not appropriate. Burying the pepetrators of mass killings can be complicated, for good reason. Enjoy free access to the most up-to-date SSDI search for individuals with International Social Security numbers. She also fell into the preachers arms and cried,she had lost her baby and all that ran through her head is that she hadnt been a good mother. Who wants to begin?. Marxhausen, now nearly 70, is a burly, plain-spoken man who arrived in Littleton in 1990, and built St. Philip Lutheran Church into a thriving, mainline congregation with more than 1,000 members. Yes, the Ever-lasting contrast. Thanks for your help! We are burying a dead body. The images come rushing back: the homemade white crosses that studded the small hill overlooking the school; the memorial services for 12 dead children and a beloved teacher that looped endlessly on television. "We rely heavily on scripture," says Kirsten, "and on the premise that Christ is the ultimate forgiver, the ultimate lover, and that only through him can we know the Lord.". When he came back in September, it was clear this wasnt my church anymore, he says. You can even leave virtual flowers on the memorials you visit to complete the online cemetery experience. What is Archives, Military records of Dylan B Klebold at Fold3.com. One family jumped in and talked about how much they loved Dylan. This account has been disabled. Image by Courtesy of the Klebold Family. which Sues friend talks about having worked with Dylans mother for a couple of years prior to helping her arrange her son Dylans cremation. According to the Dispatch, Susan may have moved from the Columbus area in the 1970s. Dylan B Klebold was born in unknown place. What is Fold3. He would get irritated when we corrected his driving, and do that teenage eye roll thing. His father claimed his body but the burial site is unknown. You can always change this later in your Account settings. Tamerlan Tsarnaev and his brother Dzhokhar killed three people after they planted bombs at the finish line of the 2013 Boston Marathon. Becoming a Find a Grave member is fast, easy and FREE. Join a discussion and talk to others in the Sysoon community. (It was shown at her funeral.) You do your job, he said. What kind of a horrible person am I to feel joy?" For yearsafterward, forensics experts have toiled in the wreckage of the World Trade Center, the Pentagon and the field in Pennsylvania, hoping to salvage and identify the remains of those killed. Hundreds and hundreds of people turned out to say farewell to each of the Columbine victims. Depending on the calendar, the family fused Passover and Easter into one dinner. After Dylans funeral, he described the killers parents as the loneliest people on the planet to The Denver Post. He admired Hitler, yet his great-great grandfather was a respected Jewish philanthropist in Ohio. You can become a member, create a memorial, submit data, add flowers, add photos and search our database at no charge. . "Then the king was deeply moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept," as the Bible tells it. Exhausted by the tragedy, Marxhausen took a three-month sabbatical. I think school shootings bring up good and evil, and people turn to religion because its the ultimate disruption of a moral code, said Solomon. The next morning, my disbelief and sadness turned to horror as I saw the name "Dylan Klebold flash across my television screen. Klebold, along with classmate Eric Harris, killed 12 fellow students and one teacher on April 20 before they committed suicide. Marxhausen described them as "very good people, fine people" who have been shocked by the disclosures. The further Kirsten got from the tragedy, though, the more he began to crack. Lakewood, Jefferson County, Colorado, USA, Littleton, Jefferson County, Colorado, USA. Many people choose to share their Memorial Websites in Sysoons Featured Memorial Website Program. He was asked to start a nondenominational evangelical church in the 1980s, just as the megachurch movement was beginning to take off. Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold, the gunman, had been bullied for several years prior to the massacre. Resend Activation Email. There is a July 1999 article in a magazine called "The Director which is a publication for professionals in the mortuary biz. Rabbi Raymond Zwerin of Denvers Temple Sinai might have been speaking on behalf of many area Jews when he questioned the apparent media fascination with the issue. . Kirsten, 65, arrived in Littleton as a Denver Seminary student in 1974. You have to be prepared to hurt when you go into the ministry. Harris's father, Wayne, 50, is a retired Air Force pilot who works in aviation safety as a civilian, and his mother, Kathy, 49, runs a catering business. Thanks for using Find a Grave, if you have any feedback we would love to hear from you. While Dylan had run into trouble for stealing in the past, Sue believed her son was in a good place, happy that her he was employed, doing extracurricular activities and set to go to a university of his choice. Use the links under See more to quickly search for other people with the same last name in the same cemetery, city, county, etc. Adam Lanza killed 26 people when he open fired in Sandy Hook Elementary School in 2012. and our Share Your Memories and Sympathies and Join the Bereaved! Learn about how to make the most of a memorial. The quiet group huddled around an open California grave Tuesday, flanked by armed FBI agents. He said Klebold's remains are to be cremated and that funeral arrangements for Harris are still being worked out. For months Sue was in denial about what her her son had done: 'They said the boys did all these terrible things. Littleton,Colorado. But authorities also fear that graves could become a place of worship for those who supported the individuals actions. He admired Hitler, yet his great-great grandfather was a respected Jewish philanthropist in Ohio. 'They were saying 25 people were dead and I remember thinking at one point, if Dylan is really hurting people the way they're saying he is - I prayed that he would die.'. 'I saw it was planned, I saw video tapes they had made, I saw Dylan in a way I had never seen him before, they were talking about what they were going to do, it showed him with weapons. Tombstonesare left unmarkedby the names inextricably linked to violence. Heres a look at what has happened to the pepetraors of mass shootings: Omar Mateen killed 49 people at a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida last week. ___"They thought they had been good parents," Don Marxhausen added. When your 17-year-old son has just perpetrated what was then the deadliest school shooting in U.S. history, killing 12 students and one teacher and wounding 24 others before he and classmate Eric. Recalling the day her son was buried, Ms Klebold said he was laid to rest in a cardboard box, and broke down into floods of tears as she said she wanted to 'crawl in that casket with him' and was desperate to understand what drove her son to commit such an atrocious crime. After Columbine, local evangelicalswho said the shootings were the devil's work and who used the tragedy as an opportunity to bring people to Jesusinfuriated him. Tell them about these good people., Pastor Donald Marxhausen There was an assumption from the tragedy that Dylan had not been taught right from wrong, she told me recently in a phone interview. Lets not blame religion for this. Both are from Columbus, Ohio and went to Ohio State University. Normally unflappable, Klebolds mother was disgusted by her sons blood-sucking treasures; Dylan loved it, the fun of grossing out Mom. The search has turned up remnants of at least 13 of the men responsible, according to the New York Times. You are nearing the transfer limit for memorials managed by Find a Grave. In youth-group meetings, kids mourned that they could not be in heaven with her, says Craig Nason, who was a friend of Cassie's and is now the West Bowles young-adult pastor. bold and Eric Harris killed 13 people at Columbine High School on April 20, 1999. Harriss family never revealed thesite of their sons burial. So to have the entire credibility of it washed away, that hurt.". Syed Rizwan Farook and Tashfeen Malik killed 14 people in San Bernardino in December 2015. A small mountain of beanie babies was piled around the boys head, covering the self-administered wound that killed him. Marxhausen hated the whole thing. Would I do a funeral for his son? 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In a room where Dylans body was in a coffin, I met his mother, Sue. Dylan Bennet Klebold. Share. She appeared onBBC Four documentary Raising a School Shooter where she broke down while remembering his funeral, The 72-year-old said broke don in floods of tears as she revealed that her son was laid to rest in a cardboard box, and that she was terrified to leave the premise in case someone 'hurt him' or stole his body, Klebold and Eric Harris opened fire at their suburban Denver school, killing 13 people and injuring a further 24 in the attack, For months Sue was in denial about what her her son had done and police had to show footage of her son andHarris openly speaking about the attack. His death certificate lists his final resting place, U.S. investigated energy weapon, even aliens, but Havana Syndrome origin still unclear, They were pulled over for tinted windows in Florida. Two days later, another Littleton, Colo., pastor presided over another funeral. This flower has been reported and will not be visible while under review. Add to your scrapbook. Letizia of Spain looks chic in an all-white ensemble - and matching face mask - as she joins husband King Felipe VI at Madrid art fair, Bea's blooming! To add a flower, click the Leave a Flower button. Marxhausen believes firmly in a loving, forgiving God and a nuanced approach to questions of salvation. Verify and try again. "Franklin Graham was beating me up through my TV," he says. ', Dylan Klebold was one of the two teenagers behind the Columbine High School Massacre in 1999, one of the deadliest school shootings in history, Sue Klebolds son Dylan Klebold was one of the two teenagers behind the Columbine High School Massacre in 1999. He and his fellow gunman, Eric Harris, committed suicide at the end of their shooting spree. In this difficult, jarring talk, Klebold explores the intersection between mental health and violence . The problem of what to do with the body can be particularly acute when the perpetrator is Muslim, because Islam prohibits cremation. 1981,
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